It’s 2 sleeps until we go to the swingers club, and I’m surprising myself that I am not nervous, YET. I feel a tiny bit excited. OMG I never thought I would. I’ve no idea how the night will pan out, but I feel like I am looking forward to it.
We’ve talked every day with the couple we are going with and feel like we are going to become good friends.
We’ve discussed what to wear, should we just go naked, or wear underwear?
I said just go naked, that way you don’t have to strip off before going in the pool or hottub. The couple said they would be going in underwear, then when they’ve been there a little while, they will strip off and put their clothes in the locker.
Basically, when you arrive you are given a locker, you take your own booze but hand that over to the bar, they put your locker number on it, so the bar staff know that belongs to you. Then you just pay for the soft drinks.
They provide you with towels so you don’t need to take them.
Yesterday, though Master was in London, I gave him and the couple a fashion show to decide which lingerie outfit they liked and which one I felt comfy in. We all decided on a little red number, so I feel happy to know what I am wearing.
Later on yesterday, the couple said they have a naughty bag that goes in the locker. Master said,hang on a minute, what naughty bag ? He said I have a laptop bag and she uses a makeup bag. They stay in the locker then when you want to go upstairs to the playrooms, you just get your bag from the locker.
We said, what’s in it, what do we need ?
Basically, here’s the list of what they take.
Shower Gel, toothpaste / brush, mints, mouthwash, condoms, lube, hairbrush, hair slides and bobbles, deodorant, dildos sometimes, baby wipes, makeup.
So this morning I went shopping, I bought a small black handbag, which was actually too small when I got it home, so I’m using a makeup bag, I already use it for makeup, but it will do for now. It certainly won’t fit a dildo though.
When we go to buy some Sliders, we will look for a bag suitable for Master, I will look and see if they have a suitable bag for me. We need Sliders for holiday so they will get used, Master may feel he doesn’t want to wear them there, but I must be careful, especially around the pool area. I don’t want to slip and fall. The only concern is she has had lingerie stolen if she’s taken them off and left it by the side of the pool, which is why they lock them away now. But I will have to use my walking stick, I think, unless there are plenty of chairs or walls I can hold onto. So the Sliders could be put under my stick, I just don’t know whether I should take my stick or not. At home, I don’t use it in the house as there are plenty of things I can grab onto if I feel like I’m going to fall or I’m dizzy, but shopping, theatre trips, outings or dog walks, I do have to use it.
I think I will know how I feel after the first visit, so I know for next time. If there is a next time.