A new task for Daddy from Master is to write a blog every month. Here’s his first one and I think he’s done a great job. Enjoy the read.

This life and time of Manho the Daddy

So, where do I begin, I would say right from the start would be as good of any place as any July 2017, but before we start here’s a little about me. I am nearly at my 42nd birthday, I am now a Daddy to my beautiful girl Little Minxs and a sub to Master, I am nothing to look at, 5’5”, slightly curvy (a lot), and a rather wicked sense of humour, and this little tale is how I became a Daddy Dom and submissive and the journey I have taken to get here so sit back, hold on tight and enjoy the ride.

As I said it came about in July 2017, the exact date I cannot remember, myself, my beautiful wife and our son was at a close friends house party and my wife had told me that she had full intentions of getting drunk “So don’t expect to go home early,” she says to me just before I went off to work that morning.

So, after a hard days graft (honest) we were at our friends house having beers and chilling, enjoying ourselves, I became rather tired and just wanted to sleep however Piggy, my wife, oh yes Piggy is the name given to her by Master G, or as she refers to him as Sir G, any way I digress, so being tired I just wanted to go home and sleep, however the lovely wife, Piggy had other ideas, just letting loose and getting drunk, now she had already polished off a bottle of wine and what ever else to be had consumed earlier that evening and was well on her way on the second bottle. Now Master and my Little Minxs will very well understand what happens next after Piggy has had a couple of bottles of wine, all I can say is Dr Jekell and Ms Hyde…….so I think it may off been about 11’ish we shall say and I asked Piggy if we were going home, this was a very stupid thing to ask really as she had already gave me the heads up she was planning on staying out and enjoying herself, so with the question asked she said “I told you this morning that we were staying out and I was planning on getting drunk,” so with that I skulked away, I do get rather narky when I’m tired so this didn’t help matters much.

I went into the front room of our friend’s house and sulked, after a bit I went back to join the rest and Piggy must of known I wasn’t happy which is when things in both our lives turned…and I must admit now for the most defiant better. I could see she was getting upset and I tried to stupidly talk to her but she just kept telling me to go away as I was making things worse, now I have seen her upset before and we have both been through a lot but to be honest I have never seen her this upset and I was crapping myself a lot as I didn’t know what to say or do to make amends at that point, and yes I should of left her alone but the pig headedness in me kept mythering her and winding her up even more to the point she just came out with the one sentence I would never forget, “I need more”.

Now at first as a man I just looked at her with a gormless expression on my face, and the response I could only give her was “eh”, “I need more, different cock”, now that hit me like a sack of shit, as believe me when I say my self esteem and confidence took a big blow was a understatement. She carried on explaining what she meant and we talked, and one thing in all of this is I didn’t want to loose her, this extraordinary, magically, wonderful woman who has been in my life for at least 13 years, so I told her I would be willing to try and do anything within reason. That evening or should I say early hours Sunday morning we went home and had nookies.

The next day we sat discussing this further, she reassured me that I wasn’t doing anything wrong but she had desires and needs and found it hard to approach me about them, I must admit I do have a very open mind and now has been opened even more after our experiences in the swinging seen and now in our polyamorous/ \Dom dynamic with both Master/Sir G and my Little Minxs/Masters Serf…with this being said this story will unfold next month when I write about our first meets, till then take it easy…..

Manho/Daddy..

What happened in 2018.

It’s the end of 2018, the beginning of a 2019, what does the future hold for us……

Starting 2018, I never imagined by the end of the year we would now be in a polygamous dynamic.

I never thought we would try swinging, though I’ve now learnt that swinging is certainly not for me.

We’ve done things I never believed we/I could do.

It started with meeting a couple socially, what an awful experience that was. I couldn’t wait to leave and felt adamant that if this was what swinging was about then no way was I going to try again.

We joined a munch instead, met other like minded people. But it was very cliquey, we both felt uncomfortable so decided munches were not for us.

So how do you meet other couples that wanted what we wanted.

I thought is was impossible.

We focused on chatting with others, on the Fab swingers site, taking it slowly, it turned out to be all talk, no action.

Our first experience was with a couple at their home, it felt wrong, clinical, like they had a set routine which they followed step by step, I never wanted to try it again.

Soon we had our first experience at home, with a trans girl. I did enjoy it, felt more relaxed playing at home in a threesome, but like the first couple, she talked non stop about other people she had played with, and it felt like we were just another notch on the bedpost.

I was certain that’s all swingers seemed to want to do, where was the connection, the relationship. It was fuck and go.

This was something I just couldn’t do. I needed a connection, I can’t just fuck and leave.

So we decided to try to find a couple who we could see regularly. Finding kinky couples who also liked BDSM was hard work.

Our second couple seemed more possible, we enjoyed talking, eventually meeting, though they were not into our kinky stuff.

They took us to a swingers club. It felt awkward, the place was seedy, I didn’t want to do anything, or look around. People fucking everywhere, girls wanking the guys. This wasn’t for me, but Master enjoyed it. Why wouldn’t he, the girl loved his PA and I could tell she couldn’t wait to play with it. They went off to the orgy room for a play. I stayed with the guy, he just chatted with me, I think he just didn’t want to leave me on my own. We tried out the hot tub, but that felt awkward. I felt my legs touching another guys leg, so I quickly moved it away. Was it me, was there something wrong with me ? The guy I was sat next to tried to talk to me but I didn’t really chat back. Looking back now I would say I was quite rude. It just felt uncomfortable.

We met the second couple again, but at home this time, we had a good time, a good play and they both enjoyed spanking me. Though they didn’t understand why I liked it, but at least they did it.

Over the next few weeks we began talking to the couple we saw at the swingers club, the guy who I sat next to, in the hot tub. They searched for us in the swingers site, turned out they were looking for the same as us. So we began to chat more seriously.

During this time we found another couple, who was in a D/s relationship. This was it, I thought. Finally meeting THE couple. We met and enjoyed a great play, it was my first experience with a girl, she was fantastic and said she would be patient with me, until I wanted to play with her. We chatted some more, but soon they stopped talking.

Meanwhile we were still talking to the couple from the club, this time more seriously. She wanted a serious Dom, he wanted to be a Dom but wasn’t sure he could. Over time, he and I chatted and I suggested he look up the Daddy/little dynamic. Something I really wanted, but thought it was a fantasy. Reading about it, him and his wife thought it would suit him best, so our Daddy/little dynamic began. I gained a sister, we gained a couple to play with, Master found himself with 2 new subs and we all loved it.

We stopped chatting with the other couples, I didn’t want to meet them again because we had found the couple we had a connection with, began forming a relationship with them.

Who knew this could happen, dreams could come true. This one came true without us even looking for it. To me, it was meant to be.

Six months later our dynamic is going strong, our relationship becoming stronger, Master asked PiggyJ to have a tattoo, a marking to say she belonged to him. I drew a sketch of a sexy curvy woman, Daddy said it looked like me, I asked if he would get it tattooed on him, he said yes immediately. He would be proud to have it tattooed on his leg. Daddy asked Master if he could give me something, like a collar, so Master suggested an ankle bracelet. This I’ve now got, one of his many Christmas presents. Daddy bought one bracelet but felt it was too small as he wanted to put charms on it. So he bought another, which was perfect. Now I’m wearing 2 ankle bracelets, feeling them makes me really believe I belong to Master and I belong to Daddy. I’m now owned by 2 men. What could be better.

Who would have thought 2018 would end like this, this perfect life, I know it is the first of many Christmases and New Years we will share together. We are going on holiday to the naturist park in May and are planning a holiday to America to drive down Route 66. Something we all really wanted to do, so decided why not do it together.

I never thought dreams could come true for me but this proves sometimes they do, when you least expect it. So for those who are waiting for their dream to come true, don’t give up hope. You never know what’s coming around the corner, if it could happen to us, it could happen to anyone.

Happy New Year, let’s hope 2019 can be a great one, full of surprises, good health and happiness.

Meet Daddy, J, me and Little Minxs teddy.

Sleeping with my Little Minxs.

Meet Daddy, love his smile on the photo, he looks really cheeky there.

Me, Little Minxs and my doodoo.

Here’s Daddy again.

The morning after J’s first punishment from Master for lying.

Do you like my pigtails ? I call them bunches but not sure what’s the correct name for them. On our way for our first play.

Here’s the birth certificate you get when you buy a bear from the Build A Bear shop.

Daddy marking my maths.

Daddy’s first punishment from Master for not giving me my due punishment, so Master had to do it.

Saturday night with Master, Daddy and J.

Saturday night with Master, Daddy and J.

Last night we were going to Daddy’s for the evening, getting a pizza takeaway and having a play, if we are allowed. Daddy was due a punishment of 20 with the giant devil paddle because he didn’t punish me, Master had to do it, so I had to pack the bag ready.

Master wanted the CPS, the giant and little devil paddles, the crop, the hand paddle and the Jokari paddle. I packed some puppy pads, incase Daddy gets me to squirt, Daddy told me to bring Little Minxs teddy, my maths book so he could mark it and a copy of my new sketch. But Master was very dirty as he was working on the car when I asked him to copy it, then I must admit, we both forgot. But I will do a copy and give it to him, next time I see him. But I was really looking forward to spending time with Daddy.

It took about an hour and 10 minutes to get to their house, as we reversed up their drive, I saw J’s naked body through the glass front door. Kisses and hugs all around, Master told me to get naked then asked why Daddy was still dressed. Daddy apologised and took his jeans and tshirt off. Only Master remained dressed for now.

J doesn’t make coffee or use the microwave for anything, so I offered to make Masters coffee, Daddy told me I could use either the sippy cup or a tumbler cup with a straw, I chose the sippy cup, I wanted to see if I felt comfortable using it. Daddy filled it with wine, then also handed me a shot glass of this amber liquid, called FireBall. A whiskey with cinnamon in it. Daddy wanted me to get drunk, the glass looked huge, I’ve never done shots before. “I can’t down this in one go,” I said. “Course you can,” Daddy said, taking the glass and downing the shot. He refilled the glass, handing it to J, who also just took the shot, downed it in one. Then Daddy refilled the glass and handed it to me. I took it, looking at Daddy then tipped it all into my mouth and swallowed. The burn didn’t start immediately it took a few seconds, I tasted the cinnamon, then the burning warmed my insides and mouth. It actually tasted quite nice, I would have it again. Eventually Master’s coffee was made, cup of tea for J, Daddy got a big bottle of larger.    

Whilst we were in the kitchen, Master called me and Daddy over, putting his arms over each of our shoulders. “Now, I know you are both hoping you can play and it’s my decision, so you can play tonight, but, and I do mean but, ONLY fingers. So that’s no tongues going anywhere other than in mouths, understand ?” he told us. “Yes Master, thank you” I said then Daddy said, “Yes Master, I understand and thank you Master.”

I sat next to Daddy on the settee, Master sat on the chair and J sat on the floor next to him. We ordered the pizza, put some music on, whilst Daddy marked my maths homework. I got all but 1 right so I was very pleased.

I seemed to go through my wine very quickly in my sippy cup, Daddy filled it up again, it was very easy to drink it.  

We chatted about anything and everything, I needed the toilet, so Daddy showed me where it was. He took me into his sons bedroom, wanting to show me the views across where he lived  but unfortunately it was a wet day, the clouds were low but you could just make out the areas he had told me about on Thursday.

We all just chatted about everyday stuff then the pizza arrived, now I know Daddy answered the door but I don’t know if he kept his lower body behind the door, even though it would still have shown he was naked or he just opened the door fully, I will have to ask him. So we enjoyed our pizzas, I think I was on the last of my wine then, Daddy made me a Southern comfort, lime and lemonade. This wasn’t as nice in the sippy cup, I think it was because of the bubbles in the lemonade, maybe the tumbler and straw is better for this drink but I do like my sippy cup so I’m sticking with that.

After we finished our meal, Master and J went upstairs, he wanted a massage from her and a play. So this gave Daddy and me the time to play too.

Daddy loves kissing, which is fab because Master is not a big kisser, we cuddled and kissed for ages, until eventually Daddy lay me down on the settee. He examined my piercings, I asked if he liked them, “Oh yes,” he muttered, I think he was desperate to feel them on his tongue, but he wasn’t allowed and there was no way we were breaking it, because we both knew the punishment would be severe and include a ban of any play at all, even if Master and J were playing.

Daddy fingered my pussy, pushing as many fingers in as he could, I’m not sure if it was all of them, I felt stretched but not painfully stretched. I loved how he reached down to kiss me at the same time. He turned his fingers around, and that was it, I knew I was going to cum quickly and soon I heard the familiar sound of fingers squelching in my cum, my eyes rolled up and closed as I fell into my orgasm, Daddy’s fingers were still feeling everything inside me, his thumb rolling over my clit. Then fingers explored my asshole, he used my juices as lube to push inside, fingers were still in my pussy. I ground myself into his fingers, willing them to go deeper and harder. But I was just in ecstasy, I tried to keep my eyes open and watch Daddy’s face but quichky my eyes rolled once more. When Daddy turned his fingers around again, my orgasm built up, higher and stronger, I thrust myself further into Daddy’s fingers and felt my cum release, I squirted for what seemed minutes but probably was only seconds, “Fucking hell,” Daddy muttered as he felt and saw my cum rush out again. Loads of it, I giggled, felt embarrassed but so turned on too, and I always feel better, feel such a release after having a squirt orgasm.
Feeling his hard cock against me I took hold of it, tickling it, scraping my nails along his balls up to the head of his cock. Feeling it dance around as I tickled the tip of his head then back to his balls. His cock hard as I began wanking him off, I desperately wanted to chew and nibble his cock, giving him a blowjob, I had to lick my fingers to keep his head moist, he’s circumcised so I’m wasn’t sure if having the foreskin keeps the head moist. Master’s not circumcised, and his head is moist a little, but I will use lube so the dryness is rubbing. I will make sure I’ve some sachets of lube in my bag for next week. Luckily Daddy has a wetter mouth than me so he took over lubing up. Most of my medication’s side effects cause a dry mouth, so that plus not drinking loads means my mouth is usually very dry, which is why I chew gum and have water with me to wet my mouth.

I was enjoying watching Daddy’s expression on his face as I played with his cock, learning all his different expressions. We’ve only played with a small selection of people, but Daddy is the first person I really wanted to watch, like I do Master. Daddy took over a few times and that was nice to watch, he has lot of tattoos on his upper chest and arms, it was super sexy seeing his muscles contract and retract.

After a lot of playing, Daddy was close to cumming, which of course we couldn’t do inside me so Daddy took over and squirted his hot cum over my tummy. Both of us breathing quickly, Daddy bent over to kiss me then got up to get some wipes to clean me up and clean Daddy’s cock.

Daddy put some towels over the settee and I said “If this needs cleaning then we will go halves.” “Don’t be soft,” Daddy said. We sat snuggled together and carried on chatting. He started asking about spanking, he’s very worried about hurting my back, so I stood up and showed him the areas that were a definitive No No. Then chatted about general things with spanking, he commented about his hand hurting more than my bum hurting, “That’s why you use toys,” I told him, walking into the kitchen, I found in the bag the hand paddle and Jokari paddle, and showed him the toys. I explained that Master liked the hand paddle for over the knee. He felt the Jokari, I explained that a very good disciplinarian on SpankingTube uses this for bad spankings, only a gentle swat causes intense stinging pain. “Mmmmmmm,” Daddy said, indicating for me to turn around as he swatted my ass, making me yelp out loud. “Right come on, over.” Daddy ordered. “What now ?” I stuttered, of course I knew what he meant I was acting defiant.

But I bent over his knee, I should have asked if I could have Little Minxs teddy, but I didn’t want to get her dirty if I began crying and eye makeup ran down my face. Daddy held me down and began swatting my ass, I instantly began to wriggle and he held me tighter, but not enough as I managed to escape, but he told me to get back over again, as I did, he moved his other leg over mine, locking me into place. HHhhmmmm he’s learning quickly, he’s seen this on the Spankingtube videos. His spare hand hugged my waist tightly, as he continued, OMG it hurt a lot, especially as I’ve not had too many spankings recently. But he swung that paddle very well, and his bare palm, I had to bite the cushion so I didn’t cry out.

I can’t remember if he finished or I rolled off but it stopped. I think he may have found a toy he liked. Why on earth did I bring this one ? I thought.

We chatted for ages, I asked if he likes nibbling and biting on his cock during a blowjob and he said yes but not much biting. I was really pleased about.

Next Saturday we are sleeping over and I am worried about my awful snoring though Daddy said it didn’t matter and J snores very loudly but it is a worry, I really would never stay over at someone’s house because of it. Master said we could go to a hotel but I said no, Daddy was looking forward to sleeping with me and Little Minxs. He asked if I was okay on a blowup mattress and I said, yes fine, just have a couple of pillows, but for 1 night I would be fine. I will take my kindle then if I’m up at some stupid time, in the morning, I can read as I would normally just put the TV on but Daddy will be sleeping. I can just make myself a coffee and read in bed or if I need to sit up, I can sit on the settee.

Soon after Master and J came down, I noticed a lot of bite marks on her, J loves biting so I bet she didn’t scream like I do, that’s when I found out Daddy likes biting too. Master got the crop out of the bag and kept swatting J as she went to the kitchen to make another cup of tea, Master followed with the crop but she never murmured, though the look on her face showed it was stinging, and she was biting her tongue to stop herself swearing or saying something else to Master, though he really was pushing her until she let rip, and had a tantrum, but she didn’t, she just sat down and took the swats reigning down on her boobs, nipples, tummy, all at the same time we were chatting. I was feeling chilly so Daddy got my snuggily and wrapped me up and cuddled me closely.

Master said, “Well Manho, ( Daddy ) I think we should get that punishment out of the way don’t you ?” “Erm, I guess so,” Daddy said, Master got the Giant Devil Paddle, J got her phone ready and I got mine. We went up to their bedroom as J said it probably would be better bent over the bed. He grabbed a pillow and bent over the bed. I went to the front of the bed and videod it from the front, J would video from the back. Daddy said “You know I’m just gonna cry like a little girl.” “Bend over Manho, don’t move.” Master told him. He began with the lecture, you know why you’re getting punished, you set a punishment for Serf but then never did it, so I had to. That’s not right is it ?” “No Master, it’s not right,” Daddy said before crying out as the paddle hit him. Another whack and he shrieked in pain. I have to admit all 3 of us were laughing so much, which was mean really as I certainly know how bad that paddle is, and J found it out on the Thursday night, last week. By the time he got to 5, Daddy was crouching  on the floor as Master ordered him back up. “Maybe it’s better quicker,” Master said as he then proceeded to do 5 quickly but Daddy was bouncing about, asking if he could have a break, but Master said “No. Ask Serf if it’s better having a break.” “Daddy no, just get it done, it will only make the pain worse if you have a break.” “See I told you it’s not worth it, but I hope you learn from this. If Serf has any punishment from you, you will punish her, it’s not my job to punish her for you.” Master scolded him, Daddy just kept repeating “Yes Master, I understand Master,” On one hit, Daddy literally jumped over the bed, rolling onto the floor, again we just laughed so much but poor Daddy, he was taking it well. When Master got to the final 2 he suggested going softer. Now this I knew was a lie because the final one is always the one that’s the hardest, so he swatted his bruised ass slightly softer, but only slightly softer, then aimed for the final swat. Daddy was dreading it, as Master swung that paddle and swatted him so hard, Daddy jumped over the bed, rolling himself up into a ball, he cursed, said OMG over and over, until he tried sitting up. “Right Manho, come and have a hug, so there’s no hard feelings.” Daddy hugged Master and I then saw his ass, it was purple, bruises right over the lower section of his cheeks. Eventually we went back downstairs, Daddy ouched as he sat down, asking why I enjoyed this, saying I must be mad to enjoy that. But Daddy took his punishment very well, I don’t think he will break the rules very often now.

We chatted again, just really chilled out, before Master said we better go home. So we dressed gathered our toys, then thanked Daddy and J for a wonderful evening, and we were looking forward to staying over next Saturday. But we had a great time.  

Exciting plans for the weekend.

We’ve really exciting plans this weekend whilst E is away having a fantastic time in Portugal with his girlfriend and her family,

Tomorrow is even more special for me, we are going to Blackpool, another car show, all the cars will be parked along the long promenade in front of the tower. The forecast says it will be nice so it should be a good day. But what will make it even better is we get to meet Daddy and J face to face. This will be our first official meet, I’m nervous and so excited to meet Daddy at last. We are going out for lunch and Daddy is taking me to the Build A Bear shop and letting me choose my own teddy, and clothes, I know or hope she can be pink or lilac, with a blingy dress. Then we are going to buy a doo doo, snuggily blanket and sippy cup, I think we are buying 2 of each so we can keep a set in our house and his. Though we need to find a hiding place for them, actually probably put them in our toy drawers.

I want to find some harder maths books for me to do as well.

Then on Thursday Daddy is coming over, he is taking me to the cinema for being a good girl writing that poem for him. He said I can get as many sweeties from the pick and mix as I want and popcorn. But I will be careful not to get too much like I normally do. Not sure what we are watching yet, depends on what’s on, Mission Impossible or The Meg but I don’t think that will be out on Thursday. It will be nice to spend time together, though Daddy said he will be spanking my butt for my potty mouth,

( giggling now, see it works, hehhe : ) hehehe )

Master said “You must feel really comfortable to arrange to meet Daddy on Thursday before we had even met for real,” I said, “It feels like we’ve known them for years, and what you see is what you get, like us. Yes I suppose it could be classed as risky, what if we didn’t gel together ? But my gut tells me it will be fine.” Master is happy for me to go out with Daddy, he can see this dynamic is working for me so he likes seeing me excited about it but both Daddy and I will have to ask permission from Master to go out as he is the Dom for all of us, and he is in charge.

Daddy’s poem.

Daddy’s poem from his Little Minxs

 

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

She wants to make her Daddy proud , 

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

She wants to make him happy . 

  

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

She will do her tasks and shout to daddy, here I’ve done my tasks,

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

and if she’s bad and breaks the rules, she’ll be punished for being sassy.

 

Yet Little Minxs knows what happens,

When she decides to be naughty,

Maths homework and a poem,

Daddy sets for Little Minxs.

 

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

She’s made to sit on her naughty stool, writing lines of up to 40,

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

And as she sits to do them, its time for Little Minxs to think.

 

Her Daddy is caring, kind and lovable,  

But there’s also a stern side to her Daddy,

When moaning he told her Enough ! Little Minxs actually stopped,

He didn’t like hearing her putting herself down.

 

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

Her Daddy loves brushing her hair and being all huggable,

Little Minxs will be a good girl,

so if she starts to throw a tantrum, she must stop and be more happy.

 

Daddy knows Little Minxs will push boundaries,

She will also forget Daddy’s rules at times,

But Little Minxs will try her hardest,

To be Daddy’s good little girl always

 

Little Minxs will be a good girl

She needs her tasks and discipline, to keep her grounded for a lifetime

Little Minxs will be a good girl

But Daddy will always forgives her, because Daddy you are the greatest

 

What’s been happening with the other couple ?

I thought I’d do a catch up on what’s going on with us now as it all seemed a bit confusing at the start.

Let’s start with Master, he will be my Master first and foremost, then R, manho and J, who has a new name, cumpiggy will be his submissives. At the moment he is just trying to figure out what they will and won’t do. And there’s not much they won’t do. Master loves to do things that will amuse him, he does it with me all the time. Stand outside, naked in the rain, stand outside, naked holding a sign that says to be good. He’s told them to do it, so they have. One occasion when cumpiggy was cheeky, Master ordered manho to spank her, she got her boobs paddled, he got cropped on his naked ass. All videoed so Master can view it. He has started to form some rules with them individually and I think he is going to enjoy being a Master to both of them. Cumpiggy admits she needs pushing a lot, sexually and mentally, and manho admitted he enjoys being a submissive but also learning to be a Dom for me. I just hope they get on when they meet up, as we are all hoping this will be a long-term, forever dynamic.

Now for me and R.

At first he was my Sir, going to be my other Dominant, and we spent a few days learning about each other. R has a real soft, caring side to him, and I began to have other ideas for our dynamic.

There’s a big chunk of me that loved the idea of becoming a little, when I’ve mentioned it to Master he said he doesn’t understand this dynamic and he couldn’t do it. I knew this, Master has too much evil devilism in him to be a Daddy, he enjoys humiliating, degrading, having a slave he can do whatever he wants to. He doesn’t have much empathy, yes he has a deep loving, caring side to him, but he enjoys being evil too much. So I asked Master if it was possible for me to be a little to R and a slave to him ? He said if R wanted that then it’s fine. I also asked on here, just to make sure it was possible as I knew there are quite a few DD/lg bloggers that read my blog and everyone said yes, as long as all parties were happy with it.

So I broached the idea to R, asking him to read up about it first before answering. He did and he agreed, so R is now my Daddy.

So we’ve done a lot of reading, Master has too because he wanted to try to learn about it, so he can offer any help or advice and I think J has been reading up on it too. We chat all day on whatsapp and we’ve chatted on facetime too. Though that was a bit nerve-wracking at first, you know, you chatted to this man who was a stranger for days then suddenly you’re facetiming each other, yet the conversation just flowed easily. He wanted to know all about me, my disability, what I could and couldn’t do. When I mentioned my ugly scar, he said “Enough”, but the way he said that one word, made me stop. He told me my scar was not ugly, and he did not want to hear comments like that ever again. I know I pouted, I’ve never just stopped so quickly but the subtle change in him made me stop. He went from having a caring, soft, lovable voice and face to a stern, firm yet still gentle face and voice. He was very much like Master, never raising his voice, it wasn’t necessary, it’s just the way those words are said, that stopped me immediately. And you all know it takes a lot for me to stop.

Whilst talking to Daddy he asked what sort of things would I like, teddy bears, dummies, sippy cups etc, I said I’d love a teddy and a dummy. We spent a while talking about what sort of teddy bear I’d like, then one day, Daddy said he would like to take me to the Build A Bear shop and let me buy a bear from there. At first I said I would really, really love that but no, they are too expensive, a teddy from Home Bargains in good enough. But he said no, he wanted to give me something that would be extra special for his little girl. I felt so excited, honoured and special that he would do this. He said he would buy me a dummy too.
We are meeting them on Sunday as we going to a car show, they said they would come over and we would go out for lunch, Daddy said he would like to take me to Build A Bear after lunch and buy me a dummy and sippy cup.

We continued to chat, he asked if I had a little table to do my lines, I said I have but not got a wooden stool. But I saw one months ago in a charity shop nearby, that was really cute, I asked if Daddy would like me to get one and he said yes. I just hope they still sell them. I’d kinda like a snuggly blankie too but I’m a bit embarrassed asking Daddy so I may just get one myself then ask if I can use it.

Daddy now reads my blogs so he can learn all about me and Master and he’s bought my book so he can read it and learn from it, if people can learn from either. But now I’ve just realised he will read about me wanting a snuggily.

Daddy has done a set of rules/chores, all I’ve agreed with, but when Daddy thinks of more, he will add them but as I belong to Master, his rules/chores must come first, then I will do Daddy’s,

Daddy asked about collars too, I said I wasn’t sure about that and could only go by the novel I wrote. In that, there are a husband and wife, who were Master and slave, but they became playfriends with another man, who also wanted to own her. So he put a bracelet around her ankle as his collar. So she was owned by both Master and Sir. Daddy asked if that was something he could do in the future, I said I don’t see why not but we would have to ask Master. Master wasn’t keen, saying you can’t be owned by other people, if it was a gift of a bracelet or anklet, that’s fine, plus making it have a special meaning, he was happy with that. He went online to check and see if there’s anything that tells you what happens but really it can happen if we wanted it too. But Master felt that I couldn’t be owned by Daddy too, but he was happy for me to have a gift from Daddy that has a special meaning, When me and Daddy chatted, he said he could buy a Pandora bracelet. I said I’ve already got 2, but really, they are so expensive I didn’t want him buying me one. Yes the idea is lovely, an anklet and then when it’s a special day, Daddy said he would buy a charm. But it’s all just so expensive. I’d never want him to think I was only in this for his gifts, even though he wanted to buy them, but I will discuss the anklet if / when it happens.

Yesterday when I was a bit bratty, he set a 750 word essay and poem, it was 500 at first until I gave him cheek again so it went up to 750. Daddy put it in our punishment chat, so Master and J could see it, and Master thought the essay was a bit harsh, saying that we needed to decide what age I wanted to be, then the punishment should be relevant to that. I asked Daddy what age he thought, and was very pleased that it was the same as what I wanted, 6-8 years old. Master said set her punishment to write a story for example, about a squirrel who was naughty. Something that connects with the age the “little” will be. I will be honest I never thought of this, Daddy had read something about it, so he changed the punishment to do some maths homework instead. I told Daddy I was useless with maths and had some maths books for 6-8 year olds, I had bought for our son years ago, but never used them. I thought I would keep them and maybe do them. So I was glad I kept them. I sent a photo to Daddy of all 3 books and what each test was like. So Daddy told me to do 3, 1 of each book, which I did, then took a photo and put it in the punishment chat. Daddy said I got them all right and he was very pleased and proud of me. I can’t tell you how big my smile was when I read that, just like when Master tells me. I have a real silly grin on my face. I’ve written the poem but just need to write it neatly. And I’ve nearly finished 1 bottle of water, one of Daddy’s rules, drink 1.5 litres of water a day. Master has tried this rule and I will admit I’m not very good at drinking but Daddy has been asking every day how am I getting on with my water. So I have to try to do it. Also Daddy has said absolutely no swearing ever, not just when I’m with him, he means all the time. This will be very very hard but I’ve promised if I do swear I must be honest with him and tell him even if it means I get into trouble. I do this with Master, if I’ve broken a rule I will own up, not matter what the punishment is.

Daddy told me yesterday, he’s bought me a colouring book and some colouring pencils and I was all giddy and daft, thanking him. Meanwhile Master and cumpiggy were talking about deep throating and laughing at the difference between our dynamics. I must admit it was funny.

Gonna be one of those days.

Gonna be one of those days.

I’m feeling moody, I think because I’m tired. It’s not even 10 am, and Master has paddled my tattoo free ass for giving cheek. He videoed it, posting it on our punishment whatsapp group chat, so Daddy knew I’d been giving cheek to Master.

Deciding to go back to bed as it’s raining, and have a rest.

I humphed to Daddy because he told me to be good, I’ve told him I get bratty when I’m tired. But got into bed and Master came in, phone in hand. “I believe you humphed at your Daddy,” he said, “I’ve been told to paddle your tits 5 times on each one. Come here.” Master said. “Take your nightie off.” He went to get a paddle out of the toy drawer, choosing a very gentle paddle, it’s actually the 50 shades of Grey paddle, a pretty soft paddle, but still gives a sting. He said, he didn’t want to go very hard incase it frightens Daddy and J away. But I can sense it’s going to be one of those days.

I get into bed when Daddy says have you done your lines, I said yes, knowing he’d want a photo. Le me see then, he replied. For God’s sake that means I’ve got to get up to go and take a picture. I went downstairs and took the photos of Master’s and Daddy’s lines, Master asked why don’t you just photograph them. I don’t know, I just don’t, I snapped at him.

When I went to leave the room, he told me to come to him.  Smoothing my hair away from my face, “Didn’t we have a conversation the other day, about showing respect?” he told me. Slapping my cheek. “Yes Master, Sorry.” I told him as he slapped my other cheek. “I suggest you think about it before speaking in the future then.” Master told me, giving me a kiss, then I went upstairs.

Maybe I should stay in bed all day, not go on whatsapp so I don’t get into more trouble.

DD/lg swearing rule.

Quick question, now I know everyone has different rules etc, everyone’s dynamic is slightly different.

As a little, would you be allowed to swear ? Both Master and I think not, but Daddy has said swearing is allowed as long as its not directed at him or Master. Now as we are all new to this dynamic, I decided the best thing would be to ask all of you, What I’ve read is no little should be allowed to swear. This would be very hard for me, does this mean ever ? or does this mean just when I’m with Daddy ?
Anyone got any advice on this ?

Finding more playfriends.

Finding playfriends.

Over the last few weeks, Master has been chatting with other swingers, the couple I had that amazing play with the girl, then another couple actually messaged us and Master began talking first, They are a D/s couple but she is the Domme, I’m not sure if its 24/7 like us or just in play, but talking to them, it seems they are very new to it.

But what they seemed to want is for someone to dominate her, J, and the guy, R, wants to dominate a girl but switch to be a submissive too.

Over countless messages, we’ve now worked out that Master would be Dom to me first, then J and R.  I don’t switch so I will stay sub and have R as my other Dom.

It’s quite exciting as this has been my fantasy for a long time, having that second Dom to be near when Master is away. Knowing if needed he would be here if he can.

It’s taken a while to get to this point, plus we have to meet socially first just to make sure we do get along, but our chats have just been so chilled out, and we seem very alike, I think we will get on.

Over the weekend R was asking for help and advice on becoming a Dom, I was pleased to learn that he has been reading up about how to be the perfect Dom online. Master is helping him, I advice on my side as a submissive. I think they’ve only played around a bit with it really, he tried to Dom J but she just found it funny, mainly because their dynamic is naturally more Domme/sub. So finding me who will happily be his submissive, was great news for him.

We decided it would be easier if we had a whatsapp group for Master, J and R, and then one for R and me. This would be to talk about the D/s dynamic only. We each have access to everyone’s phone and whatsapp, so there will be no concern about what’s being said.

I decided we should have a punishment group too. Basically, if for example, I was rude and cheeky to R and disobeyed him, he would write the punishment in the group, any photos showing lines etc would go in there, then any expected due spankings would be put in there, ready for the next meet up.

I really hope this works out, it’s still at the very early stages, I will feel much more confident once we’ve met up. I’d like to see if R has the strong, stern dominant side to him. We all know I love to brat, push my boundaries, so I need a firm hand.

But it will be nice for Master to have a challenge and become J’s Dom, but so far, we’ve all been doing well. Master and Sir have been setting tasks and I’ve been doing mine, J an R have for Master too.
Sir has given me the name little minxs, which fits me rather well.

Master called J, Meh, as it seems to be her little saying whenever she didn’t want to do anything.

R is called manho, as he says he’s a manwhore.

Sir is learning quickly, setting daily lines, morning selfie, naked selfie, wish him good morning, evening, night every day.

Asking lots of questions, learning likes and dislikes, what things I wouldn’t want for punishments as Master told him I’d do anything for a spanking.

Today I had a question, maybe some of you may help with too.

There’s a part of me that wants to explore the ‘little’ in me, I know there is one wanting to come out.  Is it possible to be Master’s slave and Sir’s little ?

I need to study the differences and if it could work but any advice would be very helpful.