Finding more playfriends.

Finding playfriends.

Over the last few weeks, Master has been chatting with other swingers, the couple I had that amazing play with the girl, then another couple actually messaged us and Master began talking first, They are a D/s couple but she is the Domme, I’m not sure if its 24/7 like us or just in play, but talking to them, it seems they are very new to it.

But what they seemed to want is for someone to dominate her, J, and the guy, R, wants to dominate a girl but switch to be a submissive too.

Over countless messages, we’ve now worked out that Master would be Dom to me first, then J and R.  I don’t switch so I will stay sub and have R as my other Dom.

It’s quite exciting as this has been my fantasy for a long time, having that second Dom to be near when Master is away. Knowing if needed he would be here if he can.

It’s taken a while to get to this point, plus we have to meet socially first just to make sure we do get along, but our chats have just been so chilled out, and we seem very alike, I think we will get on.

Over the weekend R was asking for help and advice on becoming a Dom, I was pleased to learn that he has been reading up about how to be the perfect Dom online. Master is helping him, I advice on my side as a submissive. I think they’ve only played around a bit with it really, he tried to Dom J but she just found it funny, mainly because their dynamic is naturally more Domme/sub. So finding me who will happily be his submissive, was great news for him.

We decided it would be easier if we had a whatsapp group for Master, J and R, and then one for R and me. This would be to talk about the D/s dynamic only. We each have access to everyone’s phone and whatsapp, so there will be no concern about what’s being said.

I decided we should have a punishment group too. Basically, if for example, I was rude and cheeky to R and disobeyed him, he would write the punishment in the group, any photos showing lines etc would go in there, then any expected due spankings would be put in there, ready for the next meet up.

I really hope this works out, it’s still at the very early stages, I will feel much more confident once we’ve met up. I’d like to see if R has the strong, stern dominant side to him. We all know I love to brat, push my boundaries, so I need a firm hand.

But it will be nice for Master to have a challenge and become J’s Dom, but so far, we’ve all been doing well. Master and Sir have been setting tasks and I’ve been doing mine, J an R have for Master too.
Sir has given me the name little minxs, which fits me rather well.

Master called J, Meh, as it seems to be her little saying whenever she didn’t want to do anything.

R is called manho, as he says he’s a manwhore.

Sir is learning quickly, setting daily lines, morning selfie, naked selfie, wish him good morning, evening, night every day.

Asking lots of questions, learning likes and dislikes, what things I wouldn’t want for punishments as Master told him I’d do anything for a spanking.

Today I had a question, maybe some of you may help with too.

There’s a part of me that wants to explore the ‘little’ in me, I know there is one wanting to come out.  Is it possible to be Master’s slave and Sir’s little ?

I need to study the differences and if it could work but any advice would be very helpful.

6 thoughts on “Finding more playfriends.

  1. I think it’s more than possible, I think many people are doing it already. It’s important for you to sit down and recognize the difference in the two, what ever that might be for you, and then take steps to fill those needs.

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  2. That is so exciting! ❤

    I've actually been catching up on the Loving BDSM blog, and she's a babygirl (so, similar to little). They have some great advice on there you might want to check out (if you aren't already following them).

    Good luck, and I look forward to hearing how it progresses!

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